There is one question that always stumps me: “What are your favourite kinks, Princess?”.

I feel like this is often asked by a submissive to assure that I really enjoy the things they do. I can promise that I do. There isn’t much that I don’t enjoy but each time this is asked of me, I feel anxiety over missing a particular kink that I greatly enjoy or that the submissive I am talking to will assume my answer means I don’t enjoy the kinks they are into.

This isn’t true.

Since it is in fact the question that I get asked the most, I have finally put some real thought into it and thought it would be a fantastic idea to discuss what I like about each one and how I practice it. I often cater kinks to my desires, which can often lead to them being demonstrated by me in a way that some are not used to.

What isn’t to love about Findom? A man working hard to sacrifice to make my life better? Yes, please.

The great thing about Financial Domination is that it allows any sub, anywhere, even online to make a real tangible sacrifice to make my life better. It allows my subs to leave a real impact on my day-to-day life in a way that he otherwise couldn’t.

When you are online you can’t cook me a meal, but you can order me dinner. Online you can’t give me a pedicure, but you can treat me to one. A slave bound by the internet can’t give me a massage but he can pay for me to go and get one.

All real, tangible things in a dynamic otherwise void of real service.

I am and have always been a massive tease. I adore watching a man become unwound the longer that I tease him. Seeing that desperation on his face and that internal war play out in his eyes is absolutely delicious.

I like watching a man torture himself for me. I adore feeling wanted and desired.

Absolutely everything that I do comes back around to tease and denial. I like watching a man torture himself for me. I adore feeling wanted and desired. I find almost every single kink works well with this one and they are so much fun to pair together.

Telling a man he isn’t allowed or can’t have something and watching him follow through, even though he wants something so badly is so fucking sexy to me.

Cuckolding can be an extremely intimate dynamic and while I am very loyal and faithful to my partner, both of us have talked about and are open to adding a third to our relationship as a cuckold. We’ve been looking for years but for one reason or another, it’s never worked out.

It’s something that I desire, though. I’ve always enjoyed subs that I could get close to and I am not sure there is anything closer than allowing a special sub into our bedroom to witness private moments. And it’d be such an honour for him to be allowed that as well.

The idea of a man so enthralled by me, so addicted to me that he’d support and watch my relationship with someone else from the sidelines is extremely sexy. Whether it’s paying for my hair to get done, buying me lingerie to wear for him or reimbursing a date, or simply being allowed to listen in while my fiance ravishes me, it gets me going. You can’t have one without the other though, and so finding a cuck that has worked out has been difficult.

Want the chance to be my cuck yourself? You can apply here.

Control a man’s cock and you control the man. Men are so easily manipulated by their dicks. It’s in their biology. It’s not something they can help.

Knowing that a man so badly wants relief and watching him fight with himself is extremely entertaining. Watching him deny himself for my pleasure always makes me feel powerful and sexy. Knowing how much their cocks drive them, yet he wants to please me and so obeys me rather than his natural impulses, well, there is nothing quite like it.

Orgasm control. Orgasm denial. Ruined orgasms. Edging. Gooning. I love it all.

This one may actually come as a surprise, though it really shouldn’t.

I have never discussed this kink very openly so I have no idea how anyone else participates in it. I’m aware that for some predator and prey play means acting animalistic, but it means something else entirely for me.

I like feeling sexy and powerful and when I feel that way I can often become very intense. Wrapping my hand around someone’s throat, biting and pinning them down are all common occurrences. My partner even says that I get this look in my eye as if I want to devour him and eat him alive.

I like to use my seduction as a weapon to make a man weak, and then prey on that weakness and watch him melt in my hand. I enjoy manipulation, mind fucks, and generally feeling as if I am capturing someone.

It might not be everyone’s definition of this sort of play but it’s frankly the best wording I can find to describe how it feels and comes off when I participate in it.

Hopefully, this helps any subs who were curious about what my favourite kinks are. Over time I will write about other kinks and how I see them and enjoy participating in them but for now I think this is a good introduction on which are my current favourites. In time it very well may change. It has before.